I need to correct a likely misperception. I believe many people think I live in “Mexico” … beaches, burritos, Corona & tequila, short dark-haired men with big mustaches on donkeys, Ranchera music – you all know the stereotypes. Those who know me better think I live in “Mexico City” … dangerous, overly-populated, smog-filled, scary, corrupt, foreboding – again, common stereotypes of the city, frequently portrayed in Hollywood movies as the “big, bad city,” where no one really wants to visit. (okay, there´s a few of you crazies out there!)
Mexico, and Mexico City, is far from the stereotype, and my life here is even more distant. While there is a lot of traffic, and smog, and Ranchero music, not everyone has to suffer from it. 🙂 Some of us live in a different kind of Mexico City. The world of Young Urban Professional Expats (the new YUPE). For better or worse, this is the world I live in. While most Mexicans are fighting crowds on the Metro or crowded streets in traffic, I am walking a few lovely, tree-lined blocks to work. While many Mexicans run the risk of encountering dangerous people daily, my world is filled with security guards and doormen and drivers, watching out for any shady behavior. While in much of this city and country it can be risky to eat on the street if you are a foreigner with a sensitive stomach, in my neighborhood you can order at any restaurant without a second thought. This is the bubble formed by the wealthy of Mexico City, who want all the comforts and dont want to see, hear or experience how the other 80% live. I suppose this is not an unusual phenomenon, but it the differences between neighborhoods are even more marked here in Mexico than in many other places.
Now, before you start to judge me, let me tell you how I feel about all this. I hate it. While many people would love to live in the bubble I do, I really cant stand it. I dont mind being able to walk to work, for sure. But I hate that I live in a world filled with fake beauty, where people show off and mask the realities of life. I hate that while I live in a country filled with so much cultural richness, with art and history and natural beauty, I have little contact with the everyday Mexican reality in the majority of the socio-economic levels. And most of all, it makes me sad to think that there are so many Expats that see only this Truman Show world, that never venture for a ride on the Metro, visit the more mainstream “barrios,” eat at sketchy taco stands, wonder at the incredible street art or laugh with people while dancing to Ranchero music at 3am.
For my part, I will continue living in my Truman Show neighborhood, but make every escape possible to visit other parts of the city, know other parts of Mexican society, and experience different cuisines. And I will try to understand better the lives of all the people who make this Truman Show neighborhood possible … all the guards, doormen, waiters, hosts, cleaners, taxi drivers, and “Ricos Tamales Oaxacaños” street-vendors. The next series of blog entries will be dedicated to observations of micro-cultures of the people who work in my neighborhood.
November 18, 2009 at 12:17 pm
Tell me about it. I live in Santa Fe and it is full of fancy expensive restaurants and yet the best food I’ve had came from under a tarp next to the Pemex station. I’ve spent hours looking for something I need at the mall and given up because I refuse to pay the equivalent of 60USD for a two cup coffee maker. Now I shop in Centro where I can get a cookie sheet for 25 pesos. I can’t wait to read your up coming posts! Viva culture!
November 24, 2009 at 9:48 am
Try and meet some people who aren’t rich and live in different colonias. More times than not they are very warm and accepting. This is my advice.
November 24, 2009 at 9:49 am
Did you go to the parade of alebrijes? That was a good time.
November 24, 2009 at 9:53 am
by the way please keep writing you blog. im sort of addicted to them. gotta get my guerita fix.
November 25, 2009 at 9:45 pm
It’s funny how the fancy side of Mexico City isn’t more well-known in the US. Actually, there’s probably more money in the ritzy areas of DF than there is in the upper-middle class areas of certain US cities… but anyway, I digress. I feel the same way you do. I don’t live in high-class neighborhood — more middle class, I’d say — but still, I definitely feel sheltered a lot of times. It’s so important to get out and travel to different colonias, and really observe how everyone else lives. Even in the Centro, it’s so different from where I am, and it’s not even three miles away. Thanks for the thought-provoking post.